想宝宝了

  细细算来,我和宝宝相处的时间并不多。工作忙,常常回家他就睡了,偶尔周末也常在加班中过。这反而让他觉得我是个稀奇货,见了我还挺亲,物以稀为贵吧。
  宝宝的妈妈、爷爷耗心血多,平常基本就是两人带的。白天妈妈上班,他就由爷爷看。孩子调皮,转遍了住处周围的大街小巷,我在青岛四年了,还没他们对周围了解。这样的后果直接就是若我要带孩子上街,都是孩子先和人家打招呼,老老少少他全认识。较有礼貌,甚讨人喜。父亲很累,看着孩子形影不离,这种琐碎我是做不来的。晚上总是早早就睡了,累的厉害了就喝点白酒,看着他日渐苍老的身躯,心里会疼。天没亮,他就起床,准备我们的早饭。我常劝他不要那么早起来做饭了,楼下就是市场,买点早点就好。可他不听,嫌贵,又不卫生,自己做的饭宝宝吃着放心。说这话的时候眼神里满是慈爱。
  老婆下班和周末是宝宝最盼望开心的事,下午五点后就和爷爷等在公车站,又是一直要到七点我们才回来。这个时候的宝宝已有朦胧睡意,但见到我们回来立刻就来了精神,挣扎着从爷爷怀里下来,疯狂的奔跑、蹲下、站起,藉此表达他内心的欢喜。这时我会觉得生活真幸福。一个晚上他偎依在妈妈的怀里,睡梦里也叫着妈妈。夜色缓缓驶去,时间真是短暂。天亮他总最先醒来,光屁股在房间里不停地转。开电脑看自己的视频,进出于爷爷和我们的房间,小鸟一样灵活可爱。家里是串串的阳光和欢乐。早饭后就嚷着上街,嘴里大声嘟囔着,振振有词。这时他只由妈妈抱,长期观察与体验他明白,这个时候爸妈就要上班走了。我们一路到公车站去,他会紧紧抱着他妈妈的脖子,一刻也不松开。公车来了,嘴里喊着爸爸妈妈哭得泪眼婆娑,我的心总会随之收紧,被这哭声撕扯的生疼。也许,我们留下来陪他就是他最大的愿望,但这个愿望我们实现起来却非常困难。没办法,这就是生活。
  如近我和他天各一方,分居地球的两面,白天黑夜颠倒着过,听不到早上啼哭声里的爸爸和夜里梦语的呢喃,有黏黏的液体似乎爬上了双眼。更好的世界我还没有发现,但眼前的一切已让我惊异。这是我们在家里永远也无法想象的现实。优美的环境、高素质的人群让多伦多这个多民族聚居的城市显得拥挤而不杂乱。也许今生我无法实现在这里定居的愿望,但我希望宝宝可以。这里能给你的不仅是优越的物质条件,还有心灵的自由和人性的光辉。我不觉得那些以拿到国外绿卡为奋斗目标的国人灵魂卑俗,每个人都有追求自由与幸福的权利,当你在一个国度过的不快乐无法实现自己的梦想,你总有选择自己生活方式的权利吧?
  当波音777飞临北冰洋上空,穿越白令海峡,我看到阳光是那么的刺眼,一轮满月竟也悬于中天,这就是北极的极昼现象,即使万米高空之下冰封万里,依然让人觉得内心沸腾。无论如何,自由是最重要的。曾和友人谈起孩子的未来,他说要让孩子长大后搞政治,我说我不会,我要让孩子出国,去一个自由的国家靠自己的能力吃饭。不是说搞政治不好,而是我觉得这个行业的风气不好,待得久了有几个能有干净的灵魂?
  宝宝,我们一起努力吧。

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